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Originally Posted by alexkreuz
So I have a bias against counselors, but I do feel that if there is incredibly poor communication, then might as well since at that point you're probably flinging mudpies and bricks at each other anyway.
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Hmm, up to here, I thought I agreed with you
I see your argument this way:
1) If you talked things out, seeing a counselor would be no big deal, even if not helpful.
2) If you don't talk things out, seeing a counselor is a big deal, but is even more required.
End result: See a counselor, no matter what.
NP and I talk a lot - a whole hell of a lot... so I don't see that as the core issue... For me it's blind spots, things I can conceive of until it's too late. By the sounds of it, Cafe's method would be what would be helpful... just talking would be useless, as per Jenn's comments...
But I agree with your logic, though I extend it to "Can't think of everything, so this will broaden what we have talked about"...