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Originally Posted by Xander
This is one thing that makes me think that one in particular (if not all three) have issues as they do the opposite to this and shirk whenever they can. Must be one of those flip switches which gets tripped as they develop where it's totally one way during development and then one epiphany and BAM they're the total opposite.
Boy I wish this lot did that.
See this is sort of why I started this thread. Stories and examples of the good side of ESTJs are seemingly thin on the ground.
Odd. Doesn't he complain? All three of these whine like their performing Herculean tasks every time they're asked to do anything.
Definitely looks like I got a dodgy batch  |
As an ESTJ, he tends to trust authority figures. And if his boss gives him a job, he just assumes it is what he should be doing and he does it. He rarely complains. He has an incredible work ethic. He does what he has to do, regardless of the amount of time it takes to do. (in contrast, I can only really work that hard when i believe in what I am doing, like working for a good cause or I am interested in the subject matter.)
He is bossy, and he expects us to snap into line when he needs us, but he also goes out of his way to reward us for doing a good job.
Like I said, as a strong NF type, I don't get him and he doesn't "get me", but we get along very well, and when I work hard for him, he makes sure I get taken care of.