Yuppers, know this one.
I don't like feeling vulnerable or showing negative emotions and revealing too much can make both of those things happen.
Guess it's a fear of not being in control of myself. That said it often takes me letting go of some of that control for others to get close to me.
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Originally Posted by Kai
People often feel closer to you if you reveal something important/secret or open up to them. Yet if you are fully exposed, what exactly happens then?
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I don't think it matters, if you have a strong connection with someone you can talk about the weather and be happy, not every conversation need to have deep substance. In fact I think these are the best and strongest relationships as long as it’s two way.