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Wanting people to like you
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Actually I used to have this Problem too. I would do Anything to make them like me but all it does it work you up. You lose yourself, don't know anymore who you are in the End. And somewhen I just had to face, that you can't ALL People make like you. This is freaking impossible, even if you would constantly change for Every1.
Seriously, all it does is tear you apart and slowly kill you on the Inside.
Also...I once read a nice Saying:
"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I am not"
I know, it probably isn't such a good Advice, because I know that it is freaking hard to "just stop" or "take it easier" (also I am not even sure if you would actually want to), but you should keep that in Mind at least. You can't please / satisfy Everybody.
And it is normal to want Attention, Praise and Stuff like that. But you should gotta have an Eye on the Costs for it.