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Originally Posted by Twixt
UPDATE: Anyway, this time all seems well. But he just told me he'll always be there if I change my mind (or not).
And I told him firmly, to 'move on' because I'll never change my mind.
And you know what he said? "I will never give up."
(is trying very hard not to pull out hair)
Okay, really. Could someone kindly enlighten me on this? It doesn't seem to go with the Aesop's fable of giving up and moving on... Some people may think I'm being waaay oversensitive about this issue but it irks me. Its been on-going for quite a while and its terribly frustrating. Not to mention creepy. Is that just ESFP intensity?
Either way I really, really, REALLY NEED HELP GETTING RID OF THIS PERSON AHHH.
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I've seen an ESFP do this before. Whatever you do, don't give him any impression that you could both still be together some day (not that I think you are). In the case I saw, he (the ESFP) wound up being led on for a year until something happened that finally made him realize it would never happen. It wasn't pretty.
It's a really crappy thing to do to somebody, but I'd recommend avoiding him. Don't answer his calls, don't return his messages, pretend your not there if he shows up at your house. And if you find yourself in a position where you can't avoid him, be cold and distant towards him. You've made yourself clear and if he can't accept that then it's his problem. Wait until he stops trying to get your attention or be around you to start hanging out with him again.