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Originally Posted by Twixt
Truthfully, I'd really like to believe its progressed. It would be such a relief.
But every time I reject him as a romantic partner, it seems this always happens: he talks about a normal, neutral subject and everything seems casual for a few weeks/months. Then, he'll start.. hinting again. At a romantic relationship of sorts. He's said he keeps thinking up these questions/topics because he "just keeps wanting to talk to [me]".
UPDATE: Anyway, this time all seems well. But he just told me he'll always be there if I change my mind (or not).
And I told him firmly, to 'move on' because I'll never change my mind.
And you know what he said? "I will never give up."
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Maybe I missed it, but why are you so certain this guy's an ESFP? That lifelong unrequited love stuff doesn't resonate with me at all. Nor do I think most SPs
--especially the extraverted ones-- would understand it either. We MOVE ON when there's no physical and emotional relationship to be had with any one particular person. No matter how wonderful the man or woman in question may be, if he or she isn't responsive, there are other people who might be more so. Waiting around and hoping is
incredibly boring.
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Originally Posted by Twixt
Okay, really. Could someone kindly enlighten me on this? It doesn't seem to go with the Aesop's fable of giving up and moving on... Some people may think I'm being waaay oversensitive about this issue but it irks me. Its been on-going for quite a while and its terribly frustrating. Not to mention creepy. Is that just ESFP intensity?
Either way I really, really, REALLY NEED HELP GETTING RID OF THIS PERSON AHHH.
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Okay, really...
just refuse to be his friend. End The Friendship. If he's that much of a jerk that he can't take no for an answer, then cut him out of your life. Maybe it'll teach him a valuable lesson. "Relationship bullies" like that need to know that they can't have everything they want just because they want it.
Sarah
ISFP