Siegfried & bluemonday: Nah I'm not hurt at all
Thanks. To steal a
supposed INTJ line, being straightforward and blunt "saves time".
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Why are you interested in "what could be", if you aren't attracted to him?
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I think its because, being an ENFP, I'm all for personal growth haha. So even if I'm not romantically attracted to him I still want him to grow as a person? But then again, how can I know my ways are the 'right' ways for him to grow, right. Haha ok. Point taken, thanks
Mixed messages are the worst, I know, and yeah I'd hate to deal with a disingenuous person too.
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He needs to build bridges elsewhere, rather than be left in purgatory.
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Agreed.
Thanks all, its very helpful hearing different viewpoints, especially from people who aren't emotionally involved in this.
