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Lizzy, I rather not. I am not a pushy person and prefer not to bring up plans again. If she would just tell me "no" that would be perfectly fine with me. It's funny because I'm the most flexible person, if you can't or don't feel like doing something I really don't care. People usually make plans with me, and I didn't mention this, but a few years ago she said she'd meet me at some lounge and she never left the house because it was raining and didn't want to mess up her hair. I was stuck out there on my birthday soaked and alone. She would bend over backwards for a guy though. The reason I am bothered is because I don't think she is considering my feelings.

Originally Posted by Lizzy1813

Hmmm. I've had more problems with SJs being inflexible than SPs. Have you talked to your friend about this issue? Don't think I'm trying to tell you to do it, 'cause I have a ISTJ friend who I just don't feel comfortable telling when I go along and do things I'd prefer not to with her. Nothing against her, but I just don't feel I can.

Ironic, 'cause my number one problem solver is communication.