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I really would like some input you guys. I have a friend (my only female friend) who happens to be an ESFP. I've known her since I was 8 years old. We are like complete opposites, minus the FP aspect. I've been having an issue with her lately. I asked her to accompany me to a show that I been dying to go to. She said she'd go and I was looking forward for us to go together since I usually go alone. I don't know anyone with my taste in music or anything really for that matter. Anyway, I gave her a month's notice and it's coming up this Monday. Tickets are most likely to sell out and if she plans to go it would be a good idea for her to purchase them now. Well, she hasn't responded to me yet, and it's been a week. I've left her text and voice messages with no response. I really just want to know if she's coming or not. I have a feeling she doesn't want to go because one of her favorite shows "Gossip Girl" will be on and various other reality programs. I really thought it'd be a good gesture for her as a friend to come with me at least one time. I'm pretty upset because I go to the mall to help her pick out clothing/shoes and other things that interests her. I don't shop at malls or desire to go to one, but I go....NO PROBLEM. Shouldn't friends compromise and make the best of things because of friendship??? I know it sucks that I don't know any intuitive friends (I would sell my family down the river for some!!! ). Luckily, I do have guy friends that are receptive and are down to give things a shot and are generally open about things. I sometimes just want to hang and bond with a chick, is that asking for too much?!!


How would you react if you were in my shoes? Has anyone experienced this from other types or with people in general? Any feedback would be great!