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Old 10-07-2008, 04:25 PM   #30 (permalink)
nolla
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Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
Why you want to stay away from negative energy at "all cost"?

What is actally this negative energy for you?
I don't know would I say "at all cost", but staying in good mental health is one of my main concerns. And I know what happens when I have no choice but to live in a negative atmosphere. It drains me, I will have no energy for anything but maybe routine. And I can't help but to think that it effects me differently than the other types of people. Every time there is an argument that has turned away from the issue and started to be about hurting the other person, I can feel the anxiety in my chest, even if I wasn't part of the argument in any way. So, I usually leave those situations. But, if I think they are going to get physical, I can't leave because I worry about them. So, not at any cost...

For me negative energy is mainly about other people. Certain individuals or certain behavior. I can also feel down if I don't have enough variety in my life, but that is more like a long-term negative energy... and variety for me doesn't mean that I do something dramatic all the time. Like skipping countries or something.
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