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Originally Posted by substitute
Unless Maverick was born perfect, he probably went through phases like this himself at some point in his life. Maybe he could tell you from an insider's view, how an ENTJ can get to thinking around that sorta behaviour... he's pretty balanced now (or at least seems to be lol). In all probability he won't look at this thread though, so give himm a shout. He usually helps out  |
I wasn't born perfect, but it was damn close...
Anyway I'm hear and I saw your message, you cheeky buggar!
Ok, ok, I'll answer!
The way I see it is that there is absolutely no point to control other people because they will never internalize the principles you are trying to pass onto them. They need to have freedom of choice and do things because they believe it is the right thing and because it makes them feel better. People need to understand things and want to do them, not be pressured to do them in any way. On the other hand, I believe that controlling policies and rules is fundamental to ensuring an efficient and fair outcome for all people in a system.