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i think it's the lack of planning that makes us dislike making decisions based on feeling. Planning and thinking ahead etc when making a decision makes you feel in control. So, yes, it is probabaly a case of control vs spantaniety.
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This statement actually seems to make sense
thanks!
what I really really want to know is when there is a conflict of interest between the heart (for lack of a better word) and the brain... why does the brain ALWAYS win?
With me, sure, when I feel there's a moral conflict, my brain will outway what my heart (feelings.. whatever) wants to do mainly because a person's brain knows right and wrong when the heart is blind to it...
However.. when there is no clear right or wrong answer... why can't the heart ever overrule the brain with ISTJs?