This thread is full of great responses for non-ISTJs to pore over.
At first, this quote didn't catch my eye, but when I did read it through, I was in very strong agreement:
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Originally Posted by PinkIceTD
...not expressed in a way that satisfies other people. I think they're okay with their emotions, but conflict comes when they try to please other people with their expression of them. IMO anyway...
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Which is something that probably a lot of T's can identify with, anyway, feeling frustrated when other people basically "require" us to outwardly express our emotions.
And the post near the beginning of this thread also made a good point, that in place of using Feeling itself to make a decision, we analyze the emotional landscape with Thinking to make it. At least, that sounds about right.