What's the problem if you are spoiled, but this being "spolied" allows you not to be tied to other's expectations and plans? In my opinion (and as the same type as him), your husband might actually be slightly envious of your ability to disagree with other's plans. However I don't understand very well how this is tied to being a "control freak"? That would be true only as long as you actually wanted others to conform to your plans (in which case, I'd agree with him).
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At first glance, I recognized this as unhealthy ENTJ style projection, where in fact it's they who are stubborn control freaks with relentless agendas, but they make out it's you. One of my ENTJ's went through a phase like that... took a lot of working through but he's great now.
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We also have to check where this sentence was placed; basically I sometimes discuss those types of things "freely" just as a form of ideas exchange, without really believing strongly in a point/thinking I am right.