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Originally Posted by substitute
Yes, that sounds sadly familiar to me. I've gone sorta 'nip it in the bud' too... which can be good when I encounter genuine bullying but then it also has meant in the past that I've interpreted things as bullying and become confrontational when it wasn't warranted.
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Yeah, It has backfired on me, It's made me highly suspicious of peoples motives, even when they are being kind, I've turned it on people who didn't deserve it. I've even used a number of times on people I love.
It appears as if when you bully one person you're not just bullying them. Your bullying everyone who will be in contact with them.
Stupid.