A big confession, I once asked an ENTP bloke out who had been watching me from afar for many months, he totally freaked out.... very embarrising. That was what I meant by been there done that.
Sadly I really liked the guys (warts and all - especally his mind). I suspect it was a knee jerk reaction as it was a sponaneous responce... he was angry - which is a VERY pecurluar responce to being asked out.... At the time I translated into I'd hurt him, but I still don't know what that was all about....
If I ever get an answer to that I'll let you know
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