Em, er, been there done that....
Em give him time and be open to what he is saying, for all ENTPs are extrovert in some sences it doens't mean they are not shy. In fact I'd go one step further to say behind the noise is usually someone who is quite profoundly shy (although not nessesarily so for all ENTP). Give him time, if he gets around to it all well and good.
Sorry you are having such a horrible time
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