Quote:
Originally Posted by SillyGoose
I'm currently doing something (and don't ask me what because I don't have a name for it) with an eNTP right now and he does some of the very things you described you entp doing too. Which is odd because he is usually calm under fire and all that. Kinda frustrating to me, but I've just been relaxed and letting him come to me on his own time, bwahahaha. That kind of sounds weird  but that's the best I've been able to figure out how to deal with him.
I think you should just relax and be yourself. Try to not project anything but how you would normally be around him. |
Thanks that's really helpful! And it's not weird at all, it's just what I'm going through..at least now I know ENTPs can actually do that. Subconsciously I expect everyone to be like myself.
Yes, he is normally very calm, and his being uncharacteristically jittery when I talk to him is v. frustrating! Sometimes I am more calm than I usually am, because he's probably so preoccupied i think he wouldn't notice much of what I do, but now I realise that's not too true, he still retains most of his wits to josh around, when I'm not expecting it. Other times it makes me really nervous though, receiving all that nervous energy.
Yeah, I will relax and be myself!
