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Originally Posted by handsopen
Tell me:
-what emotion to project? Should I project calm and security, after the drama (mostly internal) of the last week? Or just try to be as fun (haha) and impulsive and quietly funny as I was when he first took notice
-should I act like it never happened? would that put him at ease? or make me a phony?
-how do i go about asking him out again? or contrive to be asked out myself? is there any more potential? as ENTPs, would you think my behavior cold/insane/insecure?
-am i trying too hard? i don't think it shows on the outside, but i find myself desperately hunting for clues, verbal or otherwise.
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I think you should let rip. My understanding is that ENFPs and ENTPs get on extremely well.
Right now he is probably tourchering himself on the nearest drying rack or maybe he is waterboarding himself. Either way, from your description it seems he is infatuated with you. It maybe that he thinks you are out of his league. I have this problem a lot. You described an ENTP, but you could easily have been describing me. The girls I consider in my league I'm not attracted to. When I think about going after a girl I want, I start to see my "imperfections", and use them as an excuse to hold back. Even when one of these girls occasionally makes the first move, I make an excuse and back away--then go tourcher myself later.