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Originally Posted by Enyo
Think of it this way...
At least he isn't set in his ways. He considers new information and restructures his decisions from there.
I do it, too, but really and truly, the biggest indicator of a decision that I will make that can effect my family is this: How does my husband feel about it?
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In some ways yes and in others no. We both hate where we live. It's too expensive, etc. We've been talking FOR YEARS about moving. We talk about it virtually EVERY WEEKEND. LOL
But he never, ever acts on it. Then again, we haven't been in a position to act on it (hopefully we will be next year), so I feel like he's not actually even debating it, but he's "decided" we will stay here, yet he talks about it more like talking about winning the lottery--a nice dream, but not something he actually plans on.
Does that make sense?
Is this something where he would come to a decision when he has the means to act on it? (Rather than planning and saving for it?)