An example of what irritates us the most being something we are guilty of?
Well, I modestly decline using myself as an example.
But I can see it in others well enough. Hee.
One example of "self-evaluation blindness" I see here and on infp globalchatter is somebody going into a long tirade about what he/she detests in another and giving wonderful examples of many of the very things complained about.
My mouth drops open and I wonder how someone could carry so much denial.
Or am I confusing mindgames with lack of insight?