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Old 08-27-2008, 05:35 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by dissonance View Post
i don't think I/E is actually that important to this sort of pairing on a general level.

so if we drop the I/E, the pairings are
NTJ/NFP
NFJ/NTP
STJ/SFP
SFJ/STP

i think these make sense as the judging functions are the same, but the perceivings are different. and from my observations, the most conflict between people comes from different judging functions.

i dated an ENTP, and it was great. we saw different things, but analyzed them the same way.

I think the I/E thing can be very important to some people. I know an INFJ who will only consider other introverts. It is the most important quality she seeks in a mate. Also, the relationship I just mentioned worked partly because of the I/E difference, where the girl's extraversion made her assertive enough and social enough to be just what the introverted guy needed.
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