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Originally Posted by animenagai
i'm in the 'core stays the same' camp. i think some things are just so central, so easily accessible in our character that it'll take bit of a miracle to change these things.
keep in mind that you can be the same type and change throughout your life. as a kid i was very shy, yet i was warm. the ENFP analysis says that ENFP kids could overextend when they're young in seek of public approval, overshoot and end up being 'gushy'. i think they got it bang on the nail.
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See, when I was younger, people would take a really long time to warm up to me, and then, with a look of

on their faces would say:
"Damn!!!! When I first met you, I thought you were an arrogant asshole, but now that I've gotten to know you, I realize that you're really nice."
Hmm, then you sit there and think: Shit, was that a compliment or a slap in the face???
Can anyone else relate?