I'll usually confront them on what I think they've done and give them the chance to respond or correct the issue, if I consider the relationship worth the effort.
If I don't consider the relationship worth the effort or if it is something that's gone on so long I am giving up hope of resolving the issues, I'll withdraw from them. Anger is a real energy waster for me, makes me feel sick. I try not to let myself get angry too much anymore, it's not worth the energy drain for me.
I rarely get really mad. I tend to get mildly irked more often and when that happens I am more likely to become impish about it and that's just good fun.
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People understand me so poorly that they don't even understand my complaint about them not understanding me.
Soren Kierkegaard
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