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Kleinheiko · 08-10-2008, 04:32 AM

I'm thinking about the five love languages right now. If you feel like nobody likes you, that's a lie. People do like you, it's possible that they're just not speaking your language.

If you speak using acts of service and they are speaking to you using quality time, you probably won't even notice that they are befriending you by sitting and talking to you. You will just notice that they aren't doing anything for you, and your relationship will suffer.

Learn how to make them feel liked, and then bring up how they could make you feel liked. Explain everything to them if need be. If they like you, they will readily try.

08-10-2008, 04:32 AM	#97 (permalink)
Kleinheiko Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Type: IxTP Location: right here Posts: 47	I'm thinking about the five love languages right now. If you feel like nobody likes you, that's a lie. People do like you, it's possible that they're just not speaking your language. If you speak using acts of service and they are speaking to you using quality time, you probably won't even notice that they are befriending you by sitting and talking to you. You will just notice that they aren't doing anything for you, and your relationship will suffer. Learn how to make them feel liked, and then bring up how they could make you feel liked. Explain everything to them if need be. If they like you, they will readily try. __________________ I love deadlines. I like the whooshing sound they make as they fly by.