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Originally Posted by Victor
I think this is the most interesting part of your post.
It may be you don't want to talk so much about insomnia rather you want to relate - you want someone to relate to.
This maybe your best way of forming a relationship - by talking about something else - putting the watchdog of the mind to sleep by misdirection - so that you can form a relationship surreptitiously.
Men compete with each other for money and power while women compete with each other for relationships.
So for both men and women deception is a good competitive strategy because deception works. And in this case, it is deception by misdirection.
Hey, you had me looking in the wrong place.
But although deception is a good competitive strategy, it comes at a price. And the price is trust.
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What was deceptive in my post? I talked about a problem, asked if anyone could relate in order to find a solution.
Perhaps I used the wrong word...