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Old 05-22-2008, 03:45 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Xander View Post
Well sometimes I want a discussion about something like whether it's more appropriate to consider X value more important than Y or if I'm just forgetting Z and in my circle the introverts tend to consider it more carefully where as the extroverts will tell you how simple it is and ask why you asked (which is not the kind of conversational direction which they often have patience for).
Do I? And no you can't use the trump card, of saying there are exceptions, if you want to make generalisations about Es go for it but that includes me. I can only guess that you are refering to an extroverted J telling you how simple something is? Also your permanently biased opinion; that introverts obviously consider everything more deeply than extroverts is as offensive as it has always been.. sigh... Also i honeslty think discussion about X vs Y and the missing Z are much more likely to get a "well that is easy" response from any S especially if coupled with J rather than E or I becoming the dominate factor governing how people responed to these kinds of discussions.


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That's the thing with me though, I most often absorb really quickly.
Yet if you feel an extrovert has spoken quicker than you think is appropriate for the response to have been based on throughly absorbed version of the information you have given earlier, you are happy to conclude that they have only considered it in a shallow mane; You reserve to yourself a level of judgement about what has happened in their heads.

Here someone suggests that someone else has made some comments worth thinking about and you reply you have thought about them enough. By the rules you apply to others around you, when you are speaking, it is, in this example, for Gen to decide if you thought about it enough... hehehe

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