[Xander]

Originally Posted by Jennifer

Would I ever joke with you?

*get out screwdriver, screw with Xander's head*

Well yes and no. Yes cause you would joke but I'm wondering what's behind the joke, where the links come from etc.

Originally Posted by Jennifer

Hmmm, what are you like IRL? You talk a lot here when you post.
(You remind me of Sub in a lot of ways in your delivery style.)

Tall, dark and handsome... why?



IRL I'm pretty much as I am here except a lot more brief basically because I get feedback before my head starts to explode into tangents, retractions, reinforcements and so on. This text based malarkey is too damn slow some days.

Of course other days I just shut the lot out and hide

Originally Posted by Jennifer

I guess it depends on what exactly these "interruptions" look like. I don't like constantly being side-tracked when I am trying to verbalize, or have someone constantly try to finish my sentences... but at the same time, if it's conversation that pushes things forward, I'm perfectly okay with that.

Of course it depends.. always in context.

Originally Posted by Jennifer

I talk to some extroverts, and very few of them are constantly interrupting, most are mature enough to know to listen and respond when appropriate... or how to minimize their interrupts.

That was as polarised as INTP are socially inept. I'm just typing not describing with accuracy. It's more of "this type is more prone to" even if it's only a 1% difference.

Originally Posted by Jennifer

Yes, sometimes I just want to get it out and not have to worry about how to frame it or present it for someone else, I want them to take that upon themselves to help me.

Well sometimes I want a discussion about something like whether it's more appropriate to consider X value more important than Y or if I'm just forgetting Z and in my circle the introverts tend to consider it more carefully where as the extroverts will tell you how simple it is and ask why you asked (which is not the kind of conversational direction which they often have patience for).

Originally Posted by Jennifer

But I thought Gen made some points worth mulling over.

That's the thing with me though, I most often absorb really quickly. Oh and I have a boring job and a slow internet connection... I consider quite thoroughly what people say.... I just don't often convey it well