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Old 05-12-2008, 08:16 AM   #12 (permalink)
alcea rosea
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Shyness is a matter of confidence.
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Shyness deals with confidence (or lack thereof) in social situations.
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Shyness is a particular trait in a particular situation(s).
I agree with these. Shyness is a matter of confidence and also related to a situations so people can be shy in certain situations with certain people but be less shy (or not shy at all) in company of other people.

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With that said, I try to separate the two by thinking of introverts as people who are comfortable with solitude, while shy people as being uncomfortable and resisting solitude, but forced to be there for whatever reason.
I agree with what Edahn said here about introverts being comfortable with solitude.

I do think people confuse many times that introverts are shy because they might not be willing to participate at once. Many reserved people want to check the situation first before participating and they can be mistaken of being shy.
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