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Originally Posted by Natrushka
Two of my friends are ISFJs - they're both copyeditors, too - they've keyed cars. That seems like a crime of passion to me - not a calculated, planned out, months or years later, revenge.
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Yes, exactly. The bitterness usually sits there waiting unless dealt with, but they are prone to just doing things. (My wife has expressed desire to smash my computer with a hammer, for example, and actually does mean it. She just knows it's petty, and that then I would waste money buying a new one... and she's so thrifty that she doesn't want to waste the money for a moment of pleasure.
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lol, nighthawk, I read your post AFTER I wrote this... yes, it looks like you've been there too.
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Interesting about your father. Would he actually plan something out? I understand being upset and angry for years and letting that influence your behaviour toward someone. Would he, for example, upon finding out they were cheating on him, crack their passwords weeks later, lockup all their email accounts, change their passwords and post unflattering pictures of them at the online dating services where they were caught cheating on you? 
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No, that's too much discipline for him. Instead, he'd would just look for ways to badmouth (the E part of him) or undermine them in real-time (the opportunistic P part of him). He's not much for long-term planning, he just tries to avenge himself when the opportunity arises and leave a real stink in their nostrils.