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Originally Posted by SPARKles
Dizzy,
I agree with you about writing the feelings down, and also the 'being stubborn and sticking with a decision' even he repeated questioned. Sometimes a little bit of input from others beings clarity to the surface. Sometimes just discerning my own feelings are difficult. I just was able to see that is how he WAS compared to how he's acting now. He also told me a few weeks ago that he's been having a complete turn-around in his feelings about me. He often uses the phrase, "It's only been a month...it's only been a few months...". He also told me I was right about my intuition that it was only a matter of time before he is ready. How do I get him to be comfortable enough to begin again sooner and quit stalling?
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I think you need to take a step back. It's time that he realizes what he misses and the only way to do that is by attaining some distance.
I'm afraid that you push it too much. I could get agitated when people do that and block them all together. You have to show some strength, that's far more attractive than being just overwelmed.