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Originally Posted by Jen
lol I'm borderline and don't appreciate being told that. I don't usually tell people how to act. You are who you are. In fact I hate when people try and tell me how I should behave or feel about something. SJ's are great at that sort of thing that's why I try and avoid them.
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Yeah, that's why the requests I cited in the OP can be as bad as they are .) I mean, someone might indeed do better by opening up, for example.. but, it's such loaded language!
I think the key issue in those statements (and why I think they may be grossly misused) is the assumption that comes with them. It's style over substance. The person's merits are dismissed, and the point is made on the style of their behavior.
But, there's others. I'll compile my list
