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Originally Posted by Santtu
..act serious for a while?
..relax for a while?
..calm down?
..open up a bit?
..reconsider their ideals?
..keep better record of their items?
..think before doing?
..find their inner peace?
..realize it's just money?
..shrug off a a public humiliation?
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Interesting thread. I am wondering if these relate to a trait that you know you have but constantly fight? Or if it is for a trait that you don't believe you have and hate in others? For myself (INTP), I would say that it would seriously bother me if someone asked me "to be more open-minded about a subject". I am guessing it has something to do with my self perception of myself of being able to view all sides of an argument. Anyone that would question that would make me doubt myself. For my wife (ISFJ), I know that it really bothers her if I criticize her in any way so if I have an opinion about something she is doing, I have to be extra careful to make sure she doesn't take it as a personal attack. So to put it in words for this thread, it would be me saying something like...."What were you thinking?".