[Athenian200]

Actually, I've heard that talking to N's is often stressful for S types as well... so it should work both ways. Concrete-Concrete and Abstract-Abstract should be simpler, theoretically, compared to Abstract-Concrete or Concrete-Abstract.

In your specific case, I think it's the shared xxTJ with Meta, meaning you both show and communicate via Te. And you and Hexis have all the same functions in reverse... meaning you should experience all the same aspects of reality, but with opposite priorities.

N's aren't necessarily used to being comprehended, actually. Society is mostly made up of S's who are unlikely to "get" them easily, and healthy ones usually try to learn coping skills to compensate. It may well be harder for them to explain themselves to an S, but if they really think it's a waste of time, then they're just being arrogant.